Packin'!

*sneeeze sneeze!!!* In the midst of packing the room at home to make way for more room for junk from C606!! Dustyy!! It's junk that should've been cleared way long time ago maN! All the goodie bags from NUS and KR, and loads of papers from past semesters, gifts and notes from the sweeties from hall, room decos, boxes of different gadgets (my poor canon and long-suffering nokia phone!) and random things i thought i'd lost (my bangles and old accessories!! Whoopee!hah! and my whole stack of NUS namecards..how nice. after i got a job -_-)...

Shucks, I just regret not taking a picture of the "before" mess and the new clean, empty corner beside my bed!! Whoohoo!! Now its time to ikea it up with a cosy chair or something! :)

Pause for dinner @ Everything with Fries!!! :D

Kay Backk! Whoa damn full. Pretty normal i think, I like the nutella shake best!! But really full until cannot take it.. :b

Anw. so i was thinking. everyone really needs a first relationship. It helps you see how u really behave in a relationship and make the essential mistakes that u don't wanna repeat in the next one.. Someone did mention though, that the more exes u have, the higher your expectation of your partner goes.. I guess that's normal considering u've also tried to improve yourself over the past r/ss..but I don't agree, I find that if they are two totally different guys, there is nothing to compare; it is, afterall, a totally different relationship.

Oh well. it was a passing thought from observation of a first-time couple (at least on one side).. sometimes, at the very least the guy needs some practice to know how a girl is in a r/s, what she expects, how different she can be alone as compared to friends, understand the YES = NO, NO = NO/YES language and hence learn how he can pacify/comfort/flatter/appease/win her over..

On the girl's side, it would help from experience to not overask, to learn to balance love/life and pursue other passions beside the newest one, and to understand the rubberband theory that guys need to pull away sometimes (for whatever male-instinctive reason) but he will always bounce back-- hence to not stifle the boy til that rubberband stretches too thin and snaps.

Or else, sometimes, without this knowledge/experience, that same old fight can keep reoccuring til things get bad beyond repair.

Well not saying that this theory applies to every couple, maybe to younger ones; i've seen lots of examples who've outlived my theory so it's not that generic anyway.

Random rants!